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How does one succeed in life?

15.06.2025 23:39

How does one succeed in life?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What makes you think that former U.S. President Donald Trump's legal team has already been laying the groundwork for an appeal in the hush money trial?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Islam is definitely a very anti-LGBTQ religion, so why don't liberals ever stage pro-LGBTQ demonstrations at mosques or at the consulates/embassies of Muslim countries?

Does not procrastinate.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

I saw a post on X which says "control your lust & you'll understand how boring 90% of women are." What do you think about it? Do you agree or disagree? Why?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Norris fastest as Piastri hits the wall during FP3 in Canada - Formula 1

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why do some men want to remain single despite the fact that many women want to have a romantic relationship with them?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hangs out with loser friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do you suck dicks with no reciprocation?

What I need from you?

Procrastinates a lot.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Can you share a lesson that you learned later in life and how it has impacted your current lifestyle, mentality, or attitude?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What's the gayest thing you have experienced on an only boys sleepover?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Ask yourself:

Why are daughters mean to their mothers?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Why do some people feel down in summer, specifically in July and August? What could be the reasons behind this feeling of sadness during those months only?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What do teens do at night?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

That's it for today.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.